Johnny Depptalked about his turbulent childhood while testifying on Tuesday at his defamation trial against ex-wifeAmber Heard.
The actor, 58, said his late motherBetty Sue Palmerwas “violent” and “cruel” to him when growing up, to the point where he “tried to stay out of the line of fire” where she was concerned.
“The verbal abuse, the psychological abuse, was almost worse than the beatings. The beatings were just physical pain. The physical pain, you learn to deal with. You learn to accept it. You learn to deal with it,” said Depp.
Some of the violence Palmer inflicted, Depp alleged, included throwing an “ashtray,” “a high-heeled shoe” or “a telephone.” He said she would hit her children in their heads, and “had the ability to be as cruel as anyone can be.”
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Depp recounted that his father, John Depp Sr., “is a very kind,” “quiet” and “shy” man, and “not a confrontational person in any way.”
The actor continued, “And whenBetty Sue, my mother, would go off on a tangent toward my father — and of course, in front of the kids, it [didn’t] matter to her — he, amazingly, remained very stoic and never, as she was rationing him with horrible things, he stood there and just looked at her while she delivered the pain, and he swallowed it. He took it.”
Depp went on to say that “there was never a moment when my father lost control and attacked my mother or hit my mother or even said a bad thing to my mother.”
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Johnny Depp with his mother Betty Sue Palmer.Jim Smeal/Ron Galella Collection via Getty
“The things that I witnessed … there were a couple of times when it got too far when I could see his eyes welling up as he was staring at her, saying nothing,” thePirates of the Caribbeanstar said. “The most he would do is he would punch a wall. I once saw him punch a wall and he shattered his hand because it wasn’t drywall, it was proper concrete … but still, never touched her, never argued with her. He remained a gentleman.”
“To me, as a 5-year-old boy, I kept wondering, why does he take it? How does he take this? And why doesn’t he leave her? But he didn’t,” Depp added. “He was able to maintain his calm, and his composure. He was able to maintain his relationship with his children. … He is a good man.”
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Added Dembrowski, 61, “She would hit us. She would throw things.” When asked if Depp ever hit back at his mom when she was abusive, Dembrowski said no, “He never went to that place.”
“Really early on as a young child,” she said, “none of what was happening in our home felt good. And so, as I got older, both Johnny and I actually, we decided that once we left, once we had our own home, we were never going to repeat, ever, anything similar in any way to our childhood. We were gonna do it different.”
Palmer “softened” as she grew older, Dembrowski said. Shedied at age 81 in May 2016, just days before Heard, 35, filed for divorce from Depp.
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source: people.com
