With the appointment of a barrier-breaking new Cabinet comes a new class of political spouses in Washington, D.C. — some of the most visible of whom are men.
ArecentNew York Timespiecefocuses on these husbands, who are taking on what has historically been a role for women.
Among them is Second Gentleman Doug Emhoff, married to Vice PresidentKamala Harris, and Transportation SecretaryPete Buttigieg’s husband,Chasten Buttigieg.
While male spouses of female politicians are far from new, they are arguably more visible than ever before, thanks to Emhoff’s role as the first-ever second gentleman andthe sheer number of historic hiresin the Biden administration, starting with Harris, the first woman vice president as well as the first Black or Asian person in the role.
In spite of the spotlight from their husbands' and wives' new jobs, the incoming crop of political spouses seems altogether … ordinary. Chasten, for instance, is furnishing the couple’s new D.C. home with Facebook Marketplace finds, according to theTimes.
The normalcy isn’t all that surprising, say some male political spouses, when you consider their partners.
“It’s really pretty simple,” Dan Mulhern, husband to new Secretary of Energy Jennifer Granholm, told theTimes. “Men are doing what women have always done, just as women are doing what men have always done.”
Connie Schultz, a celebrated columnist whose husband is Ohio Sen. Sherrod Brown, had this perspective: “We’re having these conversations now because men are becoming recognized in their spouse role. Which is also frustrating when you’re a woman and have been doing this for quite some time.”
From left: Secretary of Energy Jennifer Granholm and husband Dan Mulhern.Shutterstock
Mulhern, 63, is no stranger to the role of political spouse — both confidante and cheerleader — having served as Michigan’s first first gentleman during his wife’s tenure as the 47th governor.
Ina poston the Michigan website while his wife was in office, Mulhern explained why he chose the “First Gentleman” moniker.
“I chose this title for a few reasons. First, other male spouses had already claimed the fun names: first hunk, first dude, and first coach,” Mulhern wrote, adding, “Seriously, I learned from my Irish grandmother’s repeated instructions, that gentleman meant something, and most important it meant that you showed respect to ladies, and a special fidelity to your lady.”
Mulhern continued: “I am proud and humbled to serve my wife. As ‘first lady’ connotes a respect for her husband and her governor, it seems like ‘first gentleman’ is an appropriate mirror image that conveys respect to the leader of the state.”
Pete (left) and Chasten Buttigieg.KAMIL KRZACZYNSKI/AFP via Getty
Chasten, 31, first came to prominence when his husband, a former mayor of South Bend, Indiana, launched a presidential campaign in the 2020 race. Pete went on to win the Democratic Iowa caucuses, becoming the first openly gay candidate to do so.
The twomet on a dating appin 2015.
“I think a lot of the articles are like, ‘They met on Hinge, fell in love. Chasten is the teacher, Pete’s the politician,’ " Chasten, who had taught middle school, told PEOPLE last year. “There’s a lot in there about the heartaches that led me to Pete.”
“It wasn’t like, Well there are rainbows and butterflies,” he continued. “It was acknowledging to someone: ‘I think I’m kind of broken in all these different ways.’ Peter helped me put the pieces back together.”
Chasten became his own presence on the campaign trail, often stumping for his husband and subsequently releasing a memoir,I Have Something to Tell You, last September.
Now in D.C., he’s considering his future and growing wistful, it sounds, for his previous role — telling theTimeshe’s trying to “figure out if [teaching] is something I can return to.”
Chasten is also aware of the attention: “I don’t know that it’s necessarily available for me to just disappear.”
He’s settling into his life in Washington with help from Emhoff, a friend. The two were recently spottedgrabbing coffeein D.C.’s Lincoln Park neighborhood.
“Sometimes,” Chasten told theTimes, “you just need to get out of the house and check in with somebody.”
Emhoff, a former entertainment attorney wholeft his firmahead of the presidential inauguration, has seemingly been adjusting to his new role in stride.
In recent remarks to reporters during an appearance to tout PresidentJoe Biden’s COVID-19 economic relief plan, Emhoff said much of his new role as second gentleman has been to educate himself.
“So it’s not just going to the library and the national galleries — it’s also taking advantage of the experts in administration, learning issues, so when I’m out here advocating, I know I’m up on the issues. So I’m taking it very seriously, I’m putting a lot of time into it,” Emhoff, 56, said at a March appearance.
He has also added a new title to his resume: educator. In December, he was announced as a new instructor at theGeorgetown University Law Center, where he is teaching a two-credit course for the spring semester titled “Entertainment Law Disputes.”
Earlier this month, Emhoff admitted to reporters that some of his students think it’s a little strange that their professor is married to the vice president.
“Look: It’s odd the second gentleman is their teacher. But we kind of dispensed with that … maybe five minutes in the first class,” he said.
From left: Kamala Harris, husband Doug Emhoff and Joe Biden.Tom Williams/CQ Roll Call
He has also told reporters that he and Harris chat about their days over dinner each night. The fact that both are attorneys makes it easy to discuss things like his job at Georgetown.
“We at dinner [will ask each other], ‘How was your day?’ … We talk about it. I talk about how it’s going, how I’m trying to reach the students and how they’re responding to me,” Emhoff said earlier this month.
But he’s made clear his hope to remain largely on the fringes when it comes to actual policy-making, fulfilling the same sort of role that second ladies before him have.
“I am honored to be the first male spouse of an American President or Vice President,” Emhoffwrote on Twittershortly after his wife took office. “But I’ll always remember generations of women have served in this role before me—often without much accolade or acknowledgment. It’s their legacy of progress I will build on as Second Gentleman.”
source: people.com
